tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792899387633206551.post99164721019704475..comments2023-07-30T04:07:17.232-07:00Comments on My name is Nikki. Chicago is my city. This is my blog.: My Solution for "No Wedding, No Womb"Nikki and The Cityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16602391782459702963noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792899387633206551.post-47824217572023982792010-10-20T14:26:38.426-07:002010-10-20T14:26:38.426-07:00Love Love Love Love Love this post. As a Christian...Love Love Love Love Love this post. As a Christian and a single mother, I can see the detriment to society this this can be for all of us.<br />Simply put, this is a great way to bring attention to a large issue.<br />This is truly something that can only be seen through God's intervention. Without blind eyes being opened, people will just think this is nagging and not something for their own good designed by our perfect Father. <br />Again, awesome post! <br /><br />www.morethanwords3130.wordpress.comOlivia Dentonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13243035479956708477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792899387633206551.post-853502994763954662010-10-20T09:30:33.383-07:002010-10-20T09:30:33.383-07:00The world values sex more than relationship; and c...The world values sex more than relationship; and christianity is downplayed. This is why women end up with the children and the men are free to play.<br />Since women are the bearers the responsibility is on them to be protective of thier bodies regardless of if you're 16 or 30 and grown. Being grown does not make it any easier to be a single parent.<br />Humans are stubborn - but since God made us He has our best interest at heart and if we do it his way it works out a whole lot better.<br />Nikki, its sad that you are shocked when you meet people from two parent homes in the black. But you're shocked, yet its something you aspire to because you can see the good in it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792899387633206551.post-35889330300537445052010-10-01T23:59:12.587-07:002010-10-01T23:59:12.587-07:00I love the idea of no wedding no womb! To be hones...I love the idea of no wedding no womb! To be honest I could have easily gotten pregnant several times & I thank God that I didn't. Before I wouldnt have care if I was a baby momma, now that I have grown to love myself & realize my worth...I would never have a child out of wedlock. <br /><br />There's nothing wrong with those who do but I personally don't think it's in the best interest for the child & our community. Many of our women have settled for being someones baby momma as opposed to being someones wife. We need to set ourselves to a higher standard & try to provide the best possible home for our child. <br /><br />I understand if you're 30, single & want a baby...that seems fine. But for the rest of us who are having unprotected sex with men we call our boyfriends instead of husbands, then never get married to them, we need prevent that problem. Wait to have children with someone who wants to be in BOTH of your lives not just the childs. <br /><br />And like you said being in the church will help men & women understand that & value that.Laneé https://www.blogger.com/profile/15141081687917913503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792899387633206551.post-90331553306792259602010-10-01T20:27:21.658-07:002010-10-01T20:27:21.658-07:00i agree that we're more than baby mamas. i agr...i agree that we're more than baby mamas. i agree that we should strive for the most ideal situation for new life to come into this world. <br /><br /> however, have you seen the stuff the author christelyn has tweeted? threatening people have differing points of views? using full articles without citing sources?<br /><br />if i'm 35, single, and stable, why don't i have the right to raise a child myself? if i'm 30 and married, unhappily, should i bring a child into the world, into an already painful situation? <br /><br />like i said, i agree with the ideal of the movement. but there is a simple flaw: i'm grown. i have the freedom to do with my body as i choose. life doesn't always happen perfectly. and hell. i came from a single parent home, and have seen tons of other people come from the same circumstances, and our lives are fine.<br /><br />yes, it would have been easier in a two parent home. however, sometime the alternative is much better.<br /><br />marriage isn't for everyone. and i have the right not to choose that for my life but still have children. <br /><br />that's what america is about: freedom.janellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11535284054603002882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792899387633206551.post-71193218380806669642010-09-30T20:55:38.343-07:002010-09-30T20:55:38.343-07:00Well said! How can the creature stand without the ...Well said! How can the creature stand without the foundation in his Creator??!! God first. He knows what's best for his man/woman that's why he created 'marriage' in the 1st place. <br /><br />GdsDva <br />Pro 31:30<br />"Broadcasting Virtue"MishYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15233386817136541143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792899387633206551.post-61025696451969277872010-09-29T21:49:40.507-07:002010-09-29T21:49:40.507-07:00AMEN & AMEN!!!
"...God didn’t create us ...AMEN & AMEN!!!<br /><br /><i>"...God didn’t create us to simply be someone’s “Baby Mama”. We were made for more. We deserve to be in a committed marriage and our children deserve to have parents that considered them over temptation...."</i>bwdbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18157760908669827295noreply@blogger.com